SEEN ANY HERMITS LATELY?
Aristotle once suggested that a person who has
neither the desire nor the inclination to live in the society of
people would have to be either a beast or a god.
Somehow, I don't think of hermits
as being either one.
I've heard about them all my life,
but I can't say that I've actually seen one. But then again,
I guess that makes sense. They're not exactly the type to
put themselves in situations that would make such observation very
easy.
But, come to think of it, I don't
recall that I've ever heard anyone else mention seeing one either,
or knowing one. Have you ever seen one? It kind of makes
you wonder whether or not the whole idea of being a hermit is some
kind of urban legend. (Or would it be a rural legend?)
When you think about it this way, they're almost right up there
with the Abominable Snowman.
There is also the problem of actually
being a hermit. I mean, how could you? Where
would you go to pursue such an ambition? You can drive from
one end of this country to the other and not find so much as a single
piece of unclaimed land. It's all taken, every square inch
of it. This fact alone is enough to make hermits virtually
extinct.
I think it's highly interesting that the very word hermit
always make you think of a man living outside the bounds
of society, never a woman. Whenever I do ponder this I'm drawn almost
irresistibly into musing on the role of women in society, namely
the fact that it's primarily their creation.
It started when we lived in caves.
The women (for the most part) due to the demands of bearing, and
taking care of, the children, remained (of necessity) at the cave
site, while the men went out hunting, fishing and foraging. It's
completely understandable that the women would socialize with each
other in these circumstances, thereby nurturing the spirit of cooperation
that is absolutely necessary for a successful society.
The men, on the other hand, would quite often end up alone, because
sometimes that's just the way of foraging and hunting and fishing.
After thousands of years of living like this it sort of became ingrained
in us, culturally that is.
Except for technology I don't think it's changed all that much.
These days, whenever you hear about some criminal being a "loner,"
it is invariably a man. Loner. It's just like the hermit
word, strictly for the males. And the computer age has brought
us full circle. Many of us are living in caves again, virtual recluses,
sitting for hours in front of a cave door we call a monitor,
conferring with ghosts we're convinced are real beings.; But maybe
it's the last place to go to be a hermit.
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